How to deal with trauma
Traumatic events, such as violent incidents, redundancy, serious illness or the unexpected death of a colleague, are a reality of modern workplace life.
As well as putting the necessary procedures in place and providing guidelines, much of the responsi-bility for helping employees get through a trauma will fall to HR and occupational health professionals. Although it is unlikely you'll have to deal with an emotional crisis very often, knowing what to do when one does arise will send a strong message about your abilities to senior management.
Be sensitive to signs of trauma
First up is being able to assess the general mood of the workforce or individual and recognise the signs of distress. Each person will react differently to an abnormal situation but shock, denial, extreme anxiety and depression are usual reactions.
"Trauma affects people in different ways but the key sign is that their behaviour is suddenly and distinctly different," says Huw Griffiths, director of holistic health-care centre, Complete Healthcare. "Some close down while others become very preoccupied."
Build a resources file
If your organisation doesn't already have a trauma care programme in place, it is an invaluable exercise to put together a key contacts list of independent counsellors, employee assistance programme providers and other healthcare specialists, which can provide more in-depth, emoti-onal support and professional guid-ance should an employee need it.
Let employees offload
Schedule a structured debriefing session in a comfortable and quiet room. Where large numbers of employees are involved, break into smaller groups and hold the informal discussions at staged intervals. Acknowledge the event has occurred and invite the employee(s) to talk about what they experienced or felt at the time. Reassure them that anything said will remain completely confidential. Actively listen but don't press for details if the person doesn't want to talk. Ask what you can do to help.
Promote mutual support
Build time into the day for staff to talk in groups, have one-to-ones and for quiet reflection. Processing the trauma together can provide a form of 'mini-therapy', helping employees clarify thoughts and feelings and to reinstate some normality into their working lives.
Allow for time off
If the employees have experienced a loss, they will need sufficient time to grieve. Even if the deceased is a co-worker rather than a close family member, it is likely that some employees will still feel vulnerable and need time off.
Rearrange work schedules and be prepared to be flexible over their return to work as each employee will react and recover at a different pace. When they do return, don't expect them to instantly get back to peak performance.
Look after yourself
Empathising with someone who is traumatised is necessary to further understand what they are going through, but the process can not only leave you feeling drained, you could also end up traumatised by it. So it's vital to pay attention to your own physical and emotional well-being when helping others.
Devise a thorough self-care plan - maintain a balanced diet, exercise regularly and reserve plenty of time for rest and doing things you enjoy. Meet up with other managers who have tackled similar cases for advice and to bolster your own support network.
Coping with your own traumatic event
When dealing with your own personal tragedy, don't adopt a 'business as usual' approach - view the heightened emotions you're experiencing as a normal reaction rather than any sign of weakness.
Find someone you trust to share your feelings with, such as a family member or close friend. Expressing your thoughts in a journal can also offer a release.
Try to maintain your usual work-day routine but steer clear of major life decisions or competitive aspects of work. Finally, exercise patience and give yourself time to heal.
Where can I get more info?
Books
Healing the Wounds: Overcoming the Trauma of Layoffs and Revitalizing Downsized Organizations, David M Noer, Jossey Bass Wiley, £10.12, ISBN 1555427081
Anger and Conflict in the Workplace: Spot the Signs, Avoid the Trauma, Lynne Falkin McClure, Impact Publications, £13.99, ISBN 1570231389
If you only do five things…
1 Be alert to the signs of trauma
2 Put together a key contacts list of healthcare providers
3 Schedule a debriefing session
4 Allow time for employees to share their feelings
5 Observe a good self-care plan
Expert's view Hugh Griffiths on dealing with trauma
- Be supportive and empathise with the individual concerned